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Am I out of line?

Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 2:27 am

This buyer manowa375y purchased a book set of 78's. ( http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?Vi ... AQ:US:1123 )
In my listing I clearly state that due to the frailty of these shipping is $14.00 for priority mail.

He insists I mail them media mail and I do, knowing the chance I am taking. I packaged them in bubble wrap and mailed in a record mailer. They arrived broken. Instead of contacting me he leaves the following feedback- "prick"

Now I am a patient man. I felt bad they were broken, but I offer full refunds. I carefully explained that this is the very reason for additional shipping.

The messages back and forth get progressivley worse on his part. I maintain a level of maturity.
Without him asking, and in the nature of good business and good Karma, I refund his $14.00

I did report his feedback as abusive and am on hold with ebay now to attempt to get it removed now.

I guess I am just venting...
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RE: Am I out of line?

Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 2:52 am

OK ebay removed the feedback and I blocked the bidder.

I sent the following message-

"I have issed a refund. I also reported you for abusive feedback and had it removed.
Next time contact the seller first, you might be suprised that most sellers want customers to be happy.

I hope you have a Merry Christmas and take a moment to consider how you conducted yourself in this matter."
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RE: Am I out of line?

Post by mackdaddyg » Tue Dec 17, 2013 3:17 am

Well done.

FWIW, in the future, couldn't you insist that it has to be Priority Mail, and if the buyer doesn't like it, they can't or shouldn't bid?

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Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 3:22 am

I thought that is what I did by placing that statement in the listing. I guess from now on I will have to "pad" the price with additional shipping. I just hate to do that.
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RE: Am I out of line?

Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 3:26 am

He sent me a message back-

"
Next time be honest in your advertised pricing"

And included his websire- www.alankaplan.org

And phone number. SO I decided to call and try to patch things up. Here is how that went-

"Hi may I speak with AL"
This is him
"This is tw5270 from ebay, I wanted to touch base..."
Click, he hung up.

I guess I can only surmise he is a giant jerk or knows he was wrong and does not want to talk.
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RE: Am I out of line?

Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 3:28 am

I guess I feel guilty that what I said would happen did in fact happen.

...venting...
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RE: Am I out of line?

Post by gbfrank » Tue Dec 17, 2013 3:58 am

It's really too bad that there are so many people who are never willing to admit that they are wrong. Your buyer is a jerk.

It may help in the future to state, " I will ONLY ship this item via Priority for xx dollars"
Everybody is entitled to their opinion, even if it's wrong, which it is, uh, most of the time, maybe....or not.

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Post by hrtshpdbox » Tue Dec 17, 2013 7:49 am

You're not out of line, but you should pack 78s in a 14"x14"x6" box, with 2 pieces of cardboard on each side, surrounded and taped with large-bubble bubble wrap, with foam peanuts filling up the rest of the box. I ship them that way all the time, Media Mail, and they don''t break. Also, I would have just refunded the seller and contacted Ebay about the bad feedback; there's no possible good outcome achieved by writing (or, especially, calling) him.

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Post by tw5270 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 11:30 am

hrtshpdbox wrote:You're not out of line, but you should pack 78s in a 14"x14"x6" box, with 2 pieces of cardboard on each side, surrounded and taped with large-bubble bubble wrap, with foam peanuts filling up the rest of the box. I ship them that way all the time, Media Mail, and they don''t break. Also, I would have just refunded the seller and contacted Ebay about the bad feedback; there's no possible good outcome achieved by writing (or, especially, calling) him.
Does that packing usually stay under the $4 max allowed by ebay?
I have plenty of packing peanuts and bubble wrap I will just have to find the boxes (or make them)
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Post by hrtshpdbox » Tue Dec 17, 2013 12:03 pm

tw5270 wrote: Does that packing usually stay under the $4 max allowed by ebay?
$4.38, every time. But I will ship two per box if someone orders two, and there I wind up using eight cardboards (two on each side of record), and a sheet of bubble in the middle of them when I wrap and tape it. That brings it up to $4.63 or something like that. With three 78s I'll tape two of the boxes together.
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I have plenty of packing peanuts and bubble wrap I will just have to find the boxes (or make them)
I get them locally, and they're about 90 cents a box (so, no question about it, you've got to make sure you put part of the price into the record itself). I make 10-and=a-quarter inch cardboard squares with a utility knife and egg cartons from the supermarket.

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